Four reasons why God favors no one over you
1. God’s Son shed
his last drop of blood for you. God loves you with his whole
heart. He loves you with every speck of his enormous love. That means no
matter how much he loves others, he couldn’t possibly love anyone else
more than he loves you.
A woman wrote about the above paragraph:
I had wanted to say, “God loves me with his whole heart? Come off it!
It’s a wonder he loves me at all! Grantley, you exaggerate too much!”
But the Lord silenced me with John 17:23:
I in them and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity
to let the world know that you sent me and have loved them even as
you have loved me.
I can’t get round it; I can’t burrow under it or climb over it. So the
only thing I can do is go through it, absorbing it as I go. Christ is in
me – and God loves me as much as he loves Christ. And no way can God’s
love for Christ be half-hearted. I went to sleep snuggling into that
verse last night.
Scripture makes no promise that you will always feel loved, nor
that circumstances will always make it obvious that you are loved.
God simply promises that you are loved. No suffering or tragedy
will ever separate you from God’s love (Romans 8:35-39). A snap-shot in
time proves nothing. Only eternity’s movies can adequately portray the
infinitude of God’s love for you.
The more you love someone the more important that person is to you. So
the fact that God loves you with his whole heart means you are more
important to God than you could ever imagine.
2. Before God
forgave us we were all spiritually dead. Scripture affirms that
every person on this planet was dead in their sin. You can’t get any
deader than dead. God couldn’t say, I prefer her because she’s a little
less dead than him.
But through Christ we can be forgiven. When God looks at a forgiven
person, he can’t find one sin. When you are forgiven, God can’t find a
person on the entire planet, more forgiven than you.
So without Christ we were all equally dead in our sin and in Christ we
are all equally forgiven.
3. God is
all-powerful. That means he doesn’t need some people more than others.
If God could only use young people, or strong people, or rich people,
or famous people, or educated people, then God must be so weak that he
needs human strength; so poor that he needs us to give him a few dollars;
so foolish that he needs human education.
4. The Lord loves
using small and seemingly unimportant things. 1 Corinthians
1:26 says, ‘Look at what you were before God called you. Not many of you
were wise by human standards. Not many of you had great influence. Not
many of you came from important families. But God chose the foolish things
of the world to shame the wise, and he chose the weak things of the world
to shame the strong. He chose what this world thinks is unimportant and
what this world looks down on and thinks is nothing in order to bring to
nothing what the world thinks is important. God did this,’ the Bible
continues, ‘so that no one could boast in his presence.’
In the Bible, the book of Jonah seems small and insignificant. It’s
only 2-3 pages long. I often feel like that: small and insignificant. I
have often felt so useless that I would have committed suicide if I wasn’t
worried about having to face God afterwards. But the Bible would be very
much poorer without this tiny book. And the Kingdom of God would be much
poorer without you. In this tiny book we see God using a storm, a whale, a
heartless, rebellious, moody man, a plant, and a grub. Are you less gifted
than a grub? Then God can do mighty things through you. If God could use a
storm and a plant and a grub, God is smart enough to use you. God is so
powerful he can use anything to do his work. No Christian is too old, too
poor, too uneducated, too stupid, too sick to be gloriously used of God.
Do you believe there is nothing God cannot do? Do you believe God could
bring a dead person back to life? Do you believe God could bring a dead
person back to life through your prayers? Those words ‘through your
prayers’ don’t suddenly make God weak. Do you believe God can save
thousands of souls? Then you must also believe God can save thousands of
souls through you.
Either God can do the impossible through you, or he isn’t God.
Keep telling yourself, ‘There is nothing God cannot do through me.’
Heaven stands on tip toe waiting to see the astounding things you will
achieve for the glory of God.

No one is more important to God than you are: Bible proofs
In the book of Galatians 2:6-9, Paul speaks of Peter, James and John.
If anyone could claim to be have a special place in God’s heart it was
these men. When Jesus walked this planet they seemed his closest friends.
Later they were called the pillars of the church. Without pillars the
whole building collapses. Yet Paul wrote of these men, ‘whatever they
were, it makes no difference to me; God shows personal favoritism to no
one.’ Paul was speaking about Peter, the man honored by millions as the
first pope. Even his shadow healed people. Paul was speaking about the
leaders of the church, the greatest saints, when divinely inspired to
write, ‘whatever they were, it makes no difference to me; God shows
personal favoritism to no one.’ Tell yourself, ‘The Bible says I am as
important to God as Peter, James and John.’
One day the disciples told Jesus that his mother wanted to speak with
him. Jesus replied, ‘Who is my mother? Anyone who does God’s will is my
mother’ (Luke 8:20-21).
So anyone who obeys God has as much right to speak with Jesus, as Mary
has. Anyone who does God’s will has the same place in Jesus’ heart as his
own mother.
Another time when Jesus was preaching, a woman shouted, ‘Blessed is the
woman who gave you birth.’ Yet instead of agreeing with her, Jesus said
Blessed rather is the person who obeys God (Luke 11:27-28).
Jesus was born only once. So only one woman could have the privilege of
giving birth to the Messiah. That was Mary’s unique blessing. But
spiritually, we are all equally blessed. In Ephesians 1:3 the Bible says
each of us have been lavished every spiritual blessing. How could it be
otherwise? If Christ died (ie gave his all) for sinners, what would
he possibly withhold from them now that they are cleansed and made God’s
precious children? As Scripture points out, since you are so dear to God
that he gave his only Son for you – the most costly gift in the universe –
there can be nothing he won’t give you (Romans 8:32, see also 1
Corinthians 3:21-22).
Tell yourself, ‘I am as spiritually blessed as anyone.’

You have a special place in God’s heart
From the age of four, I loved helping my grandpa lay cement paths.
Almost anyone could do a better job than a little child, but that was
irrelevant. I was irreplaceable. I had a special place in grandpa’s heart.
And you have a special place in God’s heart. To him you are
irreplaceable. The Almighty needs the help of no one. Yet the Father’s joy
could never be complete without your contribution.
My grandpa wanted me to share in his work. Not because he needed me,
but because I was special to him. And God wants you to share in his work.
Think about that for a minute – God’s work is the most important work in
the universe. God has something of divine importance; something of eternal
significance that he wants you to help him with. Wow! You are
important!
To God, you are special. I used to think yeah, yeah God loves me, but
he loves everyone. To him I’m just one of millions of Christians. God has
his favorites and I’m not one of them. I thought I was being humble
thinking this way. But what I was really doing was accusing God of
imperfect love. In fact, I was calling God a liar. God says he loves you.
So to believe that you are unimportant to God is to believe that God is a
liar. There is nothing humble about calling the holy Lord a liar! It’s
sin.
God is the most important person in the universe. So if you are
important to him, you are important! There is nothing humble about telling
the all-wise God that he’s wrong. This is serious.
How dare I go up to the glorious Lord who shed his life’s blood for me
and tell him, ‘I’m not special to you.’ Dare I go to the cross where I
deserved to hang, look into my Savior’s bleeding face, and accuse him of
loving others more? He died for me! What more dare I demand he do before I
accept the fact that I’m special to him! I need to feel as bad about that
sin as if I were guilty of murder.
It’s said that a pirate killed a man. He was so horrified by what he
had done that he couldn’t sleep properly for weeks. But he kept killing.
He got to the point where he could kill a man, use the corpse as a pillow
and sleep soundly all night. We are like that. We have committed the sin
of wrong thinking so often that our consciences have become as hard as
concrete. For other sins our consciences have might still be soft but to
the sin of doubt and small thinking, we are hardened.
Lepers lose fingers, toes, sometimes noses. It was always thought the
disease did this. But a brilliant medical missionary began to question
this. Dr Paul Brand noticed that lepers would go to bed whole and wake up
without a finger. No one could ever find a trace of the missing finger. He
eventually discovered that the fingers were being chewed off and carried
away by rats! However could this happen? It’s because lepers lose feeling.
And that’s our problem. We have lost feeling in part of our conscience.
And then the devil – that fat rat – begins to chew us and instead of
shooing him away, we don’t even realize what he’s doing. We desperately
need God to make our consciences sensitive.

The crunch
We now come to the most crucial part of this message. This message
could give you a boost for a few days, then fade and ultimately achieve
nothing. Or it could be the turning point in your life, making you the
powerful force in the kingdom of God that you were created to be.
It’s frightening to consider how much this world misses out when any
Christian thinks he or she is not special to God. There’s no Christian who
cannot be used of God to win thousands of souls, should the Lord so chose.
There’s no Christian who can’t be used to change the course of human
history. But while we hold on to the sin of small thinking, it won’t
happen. This is serious – more serious than any of us can imagine. To rid
ourselves of this sin will probably cost us enormously, but for us to be
freed from sin cost Christ far more.
For us to give up the sin of small thinking is as hard as it is for an
alcoholic to permanently give up drink. We need a gigantic miracle in our
personal lives. It begins by admitting that we are addicted to the serious
sin of not seeing ourselves and our possibilities as God sees them. We
must hate this sin. We must admit that we are such a slave to this sin
that the only way we can be freed is by a divine miracle.
I suggest the following prayer. Pray any part of it that you feel you
can agree with.
Lord in your mercy begin to open my mind and my conscience to the
seriousness of my sin. I have sinned in thinking you have favorites. I
have sinned by thinking I’m not important to you. I have sinned by
thinking you don’t want to use me to do amazing things of eternal
significance for your glory. My addiction to small thinking has hurt you
and done enormous damage. Through Jesus’ shed blood, I beg your
forgiveness. I ask for total deliverance from my addiction.
I now declare that you want to do mighty things through me. I refuse
to tolerate any lesser thought. And I look to you for divine strength to
forever defeat such sinful thinking. Lord, don’t let me ever again
commit this sin without feeling your strong displeasure. No matter what
it costs me, be glorified in my life.

Maintaining the victory
For very many years I have been constantly tempted to feel useless. I
wrote a book giving all the reasons why every one of us can achieve great
things for God and I had to keep reading that book every day, week after
week, year after year. Whenever I stopped reading it for a few days I
would slip back into depression again.
So I make no apologies for expecting that you will need to hold on to
the truths in this message and read it over and over for maximum benefit.
They are important truths that the devil tries with all his power to make
us forget. We must hold on to them as if our very life depended upon it.
In fact, it can be more important than life itself. Other people’s eternal
destinies could depend upon whether we grasp these truths and live them.
The Lord wants to make you a powerful force in the kingdom of God.
Your need, however, is too chronic for any self-help technique to
deliver you from your addiction. You must daily ask the Lord to
re-sensitize your conscience. The Lord’s prayer – ‘give us this day our
daily bread . . . lead us not into temptation’ - proves our need to daily
bring to God our need for divine help in conquering temptation. Without
this we will be drawn into a false and dangerous delusion that our
dependence upon God is less than absolute. ‘Let anyone who thinks he
stands,’ warns Scripture, ‘take heed lest he fall’ (1 Corinthians 10:12).
However, your divine Helper, the Holy Spirit, dwells inside you, wherever
you go, 24 hours a day. It’s tragically easy to slip back into old habits
and hardly notice it. Daily look to him to set off the alarm bells
whenever you begin to slip back. You then have divine protection.
Negative thoughts will still come but, once exposed, you can repel them
with the same disgust as you would a blood-sucking leech. These filthy
invaders from the sewers of hell are not part of you. We can’t think of
nothing, nor can we think of two things at once, so the best way to eject
wrong thoughts is to seize the opposite thought, ideally, a statement you
know to be true because it’s in the Word of God. Cling to it like a
non-swimmer holding a life rope in swirling waters. Thrash the devil by
using every approach of an invader as a cue to throw a praise party in
your mind, exalting in the fact that the truth (reality) is the exact
opposite of the lie trying to invade you. This shines a floodlight on low
life that can survive only in darkness. Resist the devil and he will flee
(James 4:7). He’ll try to sneak back later, but as you daily look to the
Lord you will live in victory.

Appendix: why the sin of unbelief is so addictive
This section details some of the reasons why I became addicted to wrong
thinking. The cause of your own addiction will not necessarily be the
same, but it is still helpful to be alerted to the dangers.
I used to sometimes put myself down in the hope that whoever I was
speaking to would take pity on me and give me an ego boost. I was
oblivious to how pathetic such behavior is until one day I met someone who
refused to play my game. Instead of boosting me, all she would do was
rebuke me and accuse me of sin for being negative about myself. I was most
annoyed until I began to see myself more accurately. By making myself
dependent upon ego boosts from other people I had made myself
frighteningly vulnerable. I was expecting others to do something that was
my responsibility. Moreover, my actions proved that human praise meant
more to me than the divine approval I already had. And every time I got
the flattery I was seeking, I was being rewarded for my put downs, thus
increasing my addiction.
If the success of achieving a goal is sweet, to be significantly more
successful than I had dared dream is exceedingly delicious. The simplest
way of ensuring a repeat of this highly addictive thrill is to convince
myself I will do poorly. The exhilaration I get when I exceed my low
expectations is rich reward for having a low view of my God-given
potential. I was grieving God, defaming his name and committing the sin of
unbelief – deliberately lowering my faith – in the (sometimes unconscious)
hope of experiencing a high.
And although I knew faith pleases God, I also knew that taking a faith
step is scary. It’s easier to take the lazy, cowardly way out.
Making wise-cracks at my own expense was another trap. Every time
someone laughed, I got my reward, but every such wise-crack chiseled
negative attitudes a little deeper into my mind. I was baiting my own
trap.
Addictions have their momentary pleasures. In the end, however, they
are a curse keeping us from the full and exciting and God-glorifying life
we were created for. As we daily look to Jesus, however, the curse will be
broken.
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